Haven’t updated your resume in years because you work for yourself? You are not alone. Most entrepreneurs and solopreneurs are proud to say they haven’t been in need of the formal document of the job hunt since they went all in on being in business with themselves. “Why do we need that old thing?” But that’s the thing exactly - that’s not just what resumes are for.

It’s the end of a beautiful, creative chapter as my business partner and I have sold our little business, Otherness Events. Back in 2017, we started with a whimsical dream to bring event spaces to life with quirky cuddle puddles and low lounges - events the way we liked them! Our mission was to create cosy spaces that bring all the elements of a good event together in the ultimate sweet spot - just add cushions. Those first few years were so much fun, they didn’t even feel like work.

When the body says no go-go-go, no more. In 2020, I experienced a radical, debilitating burnout. It changed my understanding of what was physically and mentally possible for me to achieve. The 'how to' of my doing and being. Though the work I've engaged in over the years since, I've come to understand my deep-rooted conditioning. A mix of perfectionism, productivity addition and high achiever programming.

We all have that story that has become a sticking point in our lives. A wound we can’t escape; a personal or professional failure, a trauma or tragedy, a season of misery or an unfortunate event that occurred. If we’re being honest, we all have many of these, but there are some you feel within the fibre of your being. It’s the one you thought of when you read the title of this essay.