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When everyone was prompting ChatGPT last year to ‘Show a picture of my life based on what you know about me’, I felt conflicted! One part jealous, because I couldn’t participate in the trendy fun thing. Another part panicked because I felt left behind in two ways… Aand then I see memes like this (I mean, a newspaper clip gone digi-meme-viral, so that still happens!), and everything seems right with the world again.
Haven’t updated your resume in years because you work for yourself? You are not alone. Most entrepreneurs and solopreneurs are proud to say they haven’t been in need of the formal document of the job hunt since they went all in on being in business with themselves. “Why do we need that old thing?” But that’s the thing exactly - that’s not just what resumes are for.
It’s the end of a beautiful, creative chapter as my business partner and I have sold our little business, Otherness Events. Back in 2017, we started with a whimsical dream to bring event spaces to life with quirky cuddle puddles and low lounges - events the way we liked them! Our mission was to create cosy spaces that bring all the elements of a good event together in the ultimate sweet spot - just add cushions. Those first few years were so much fun, they didn’t even feel like work.
I’ve been working on a very special project since October last year - and it’s just about ready to launch, or should I say, pop! I’ll be taking some time off from work and creative pursuits to drop into the new adventure of being a momma. I’ve been winding things down since March in preparation for this new chapter. The year so far has been an appropriate send-off with many closing loops creating the space to step away. The next season will be about learning to be a mother and just being in the bliss and the awe, and probably the spit-up. I can’t wait for it all. See you on the other side!
When the body says no go-go-go, no more. In 2020, I experienced a radical, debilitating burnout. It changed my understanding of what was physically and mentally possible for me to achieve. The 'how to' of my doing and being. Though the work I've engaged in over the years since, I've come to understand my deep-rooted conditioning. A mix of perfectionism, productivity addition and high achiever programming.
We all have that story that has become a sticking point in our lives. A wound we can’t escape; a personal or professional failure, a trauma or tragedy, a season of misery or an unfortunate event that occurred. If we’re being honest, we all have many of these, but there are some you feel within the fibre of your being. It’s the one you thought of when you read the title of this essay.
It’s the first time I’ve written and published 30 days in a row. Ship30for30 has helped me build, not only a new writing practice, but a system for organising my ideas and managing my writing output — the lack of which was likely holding me back from writing at all and feeling very far away from this thing that I love. Now that I know which way is up, I’m filled with optimism and the feeling that I’m in alignment with my purpose again.
Meet the three gunas; a philosophy about our natural energetic states. There’s a Sanskrit philosophy called the three gunas; sattwa, rajas and tamas. “Guna’ translates as strand or quality and essentially represents the energy forces of the universe and our psychological, emotional and energetic states. We are always weaving between our sattwa, rajas, tamas energies.
Create for your critics? Who does that? What a silly thing to say! Well, have you ever actually stopped to think about it and consider if you do? When you write or create, are you unconsciously steering your word choice, or what you share or choose to express around the responses of your critics?
I’ll never forget getting a call from a Creative Director I worked with while freelancing at an agency. “Yo, there’s some vodka on your desk, can I have a bottle? I need to get loose, I need to write some lines.” What the actual? Firstly, it was gin — a gift from a client that I hadn’t yet taken home. Secondly, what the actual?
It’s been boring being a South African on Twitter the last few years. Everyone I actually knew or used to engage with left the platform long ago. But when I started connecting w/ #ship30for30 cohort & alumni writers, my feed came alive again! Unless you’re into social voyeurism, cancel culture or celebrity scandal, there’s been little on offer here. Going to post there was like ‘hellooo?’ — only to get ‘echo-echo-echo…’ in return.
A rippling reminder of what making art, of any kind, is all about. I woke up feeling irritable and anxious — not ideal for a Monday, but the universe delivered and dropped a timely reminder from Kurt Vonnegut into my line of sight. It gave my soul a flutter of much-need lightness that carried me through the day. The following quote is his call to create for creation sake, for the enriching experience of having made something and released it into a world of one.